Introduction
Culture plays a significant role in how we communicate with others. The way we interact with others is shaped by our beliefs, customs, values, and norms, all of which are informed by our cultural backgrounds. In a recent conversation with a friend from a different culture, I observed that our cultures affected our communication in several ways. The conversation taught me how culture can significantly affect how people communicate. This essay examines the impact of culture on my communication experiences, providing personal examples to illustrate the point.
Differences in Intercultural Communication
Gestures and Body Language
While talking with my friend from a different cultural background, I noticed that their communication style differed from what I was accustomed to. One noticeable difference was in nonverbal communication, where they used gestures and body language I initially found unusual or inappropriate. For instance, my friend kept touching my arm while speaking, which I found intrusive and uncomfortable.
In my culture, touching during conversation is considered too personal and disrespectful. However, in their culture, it was a way of showing support and empathy (Ilie, 2019). This experience showed me how non-verbal communication could be misinterpreted when people come from different cultural backgrounds.
Standard Language vs. Dialects
The second aspect was the language and dialect used during the conversation. Although we were speaking the same language, I noticed that my friend had a different dialect that I found difficult to understand. The dialect had different pronunciations, meanings, and slang unfamiliar to me.
In my culture, dialects are often considered inferior, and people frequently strive to speak the standard language. However, dialects are an integral part of their culture, and people use them to express identity and solidarity. According to Katan and Taibi (2021), this experience enables individuals to understand how language can be a barrier to effective communication when people have differing cultural backgrounds.
These differences in communication style are typical of people from collectivist and individualistic cultures. Collectivist cultures emphasize interdependence, relationships, and loyalty to the group, whereas individualistic cultures prioritize independence, self-expression, and personal achievement (Nickerson, 2022). These values inform how people from different cultures communicate with each other.
Bridging Communication Differences
I had to apply my knowledge of culture and communication competence to overcome the communication barriers. First, I had to be aware of my cultural biases and stereotypes that could hinder effective communication. I found myself needing to approach my friend’s culture, values, and beliefs with openness and respect. It also meant listening carefully, trying to see things from their perspective, asking thoughtful questions, and ensuring I understood them clearly whenever something was unclear.
Furthermore, I had to be mindful of my nonverbal cues, avoiding actions like touching, crossing my arms, or displaying negative facial expressions that could offend my friend. I also had to adjust my tone, pace, and pronunciation to match my friend’s dialect and communication style. Henderson et al. (2018) note that this approach helps convey respect and strengthens trust in a relationship.
I also made a point to be cautious with humor and sarcasm, avoiding any jokes that might come across as insensitive or offensive to my friend. Instead, I tried to use positive humor, sharing common interests, stories, or experiences that could create a positive connection (Henderson et al., 2018). It allows one to create a friendly atmosphere and avoid conflicts with my friend.
Conclusion
In conclusion, culture influences how individuals express themselves and interpret others’ messages. When people engage with those whose cultural backgrounds differ from their own, misunderstandings can easily arise, straining interactions. Still, drawing on cultural awareness and solid communication skills can help reduce these challenges. Being mindful of cultural norms, listening attentively, adapting one’s nonverbal cues, and using humor carefully all contribute to smoother exchanges. These efforts not only demonstrate consideration but also foster trust and support healthier, more meaningful connections among people from diverse cultural backgrounds.
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Ilie, O. (2019). The Intercultural Competence. Developing Effective Intercultural Communication Skills. International Conference Knowledge-Based Organization, 25(2), 264–268.
Katan, D., & Taibi, M. (2021). Translating cultures: An introduction for translators, interpreters, and mediators. Routledge.
Nickerson, C. (2022). Hofstede’s Cultural Dimensions Theory. Simplypsychology.