The definition of rape
Rape is commonly referred to as sexual assault.
It is the act of having unwanted sexual intercourse. The Federal Bureau of Investigation has defined rape as the penetration of any object into the vagina or anus of a person forcefully (James 2008). It can happen to both men and women. Rapists have devised various methods of taking advantage of their victims. At times they use force. Others, drug their victims making them unconscious. Raping is against the law and human rights. To the victims, rape is traumatizing and frightening (Lalumiere 2005).
The dynamic of rape
Many reasons are believed to be the driving forces making people want to rape others. Research has shown that the main cause of rape is the desire to control (James 2008). This is contrary to the widely perceived reason that rape is committed due to the desire of having sexual intercourse. Rapists have this desire to control, terrorize and humiliate their victims.
Anyone can be raped. This is contrary to the myths that people of high moral character can’t get raped. Research has shown that the majority of rape perpetrators are well known by their victims. There have been reported cases of husbands raping their wives.
The most vulnerable people are children, women, and the elderly walking alone at night (Lalumiere 2005). The perpetrators are normally prepared with objects such as knives. They usually hang around at dark corners where they can monitor their victim’s movements and attack them when they are most vulnerable.
Social-cultural factors
Several cultural factors are believed to be behind this rape menace (James 2008). Gender-based attitudes are believed to be the main cause of this. Men are perceived to be superior to women. Most cultures suggest that women should be submissive to men. These beliefs have led to the rise in rape cases. However, tables have changed and both genders are considered equal.
Personal and psychological factors
These have been attributed to be the main driving force that drives rapists to commit this heinous crime.
Alcohol and drug use
Most perpetrators are believed to be under the influence of drugs. Drugs mess up their minds and make them more vulnerable to committing these crimes (Lalumiere 2005).
Sexual fantasies
Some of the rapists usually have weird fantasies that they want to satisfy. This at times may drive them to perpetuate this crime.
Hostility towards women
These people have low regard for women. This makes them be hostile towards women. They want to control and have their way with women and fellow men (James 2008).
Preventing rape
Due to the traumatizing nature of rape, people should find ways to minimize the risk of getting raped. Taking these simple steps will help reduce the possibility of being raped.
During dates
During dates, people should avoid isolated places. One should have limits and tell their partner what they expect from the date. Carry enough money and make sure drugs are not forced on you. It is important to tell someone of your whereabouts before leaving for your date.
With acquaintances
One should stay around other people. Also, make sure you monitor your drinking to minimize the risk of getting drunk. The other important thing is to make sure you open your drinks to reduce the possibility of being drugged (Lalumiere 2005).
Other forms of rape
While at home make sure that during the night all doors and windows are locked. Be sure to ask people knocking at the door to identify themselves before opening the door. If you are taking a walk at night, ensure you walk in well-lit areas. If attacked, try to create attention by screaming. This will help fend off the rapist.
References
James, R. K. (2008). Crisis intervention strategies. Belmont, CA: Thomson Brooks/Cole.
Lalumiere, M. L. (2005). The causes of rape. Washington, DC: American Psychological Association.