The world would be much better if everyone took responsibility for their actions. However, as shown in “It’s Not My Fault”, humans have learned the art of avoiding accountability since ancient times. Blame has always been the easiest way to avoid responsibility. Despite the pervasiveness of the inability to admit mistakes, there is hope that people can utilize some specific strategies to encourage others to take responsibility for their actions.
Firstly, leading by example is the most practical strategy to motivate people to admit their mistakes. Others can easily change their behavior after seeing a leader or someone with authority taking responsibility for their actions. Usually, admitting a mistake is associated with embarrassment; if one can bear it, others can be encouraged (Kennedy, n.d.). Secondly, rewarding accountability works perfectly well in motivating others to take responsibility.
Even simple praise can make a significant difference in someone’s behavior. Thirdly, making others feel safe increases their chances of being accountable for their actions. Most people avoid responsibility for their mistakes because they fear the repercussions. However, they readily embrace the truth whenever such individuals are assured of their safety. Therefore, there are effective methods to encourage people to take accountability for their actions.
Surprisingly, people commonly use excuses to avoid taking the blame for their actions. I have heard several of them from family members and friends. The leading one is blaming their backgrounds for their weaknesses. For instance, when one destroys something or hurts others due to anger issues, they blame their family background by claiming it is in their genes. I have also heard others blaming where they grew up for their bad behaviors. Such individuals argue that had it not been for the influence of the neighborhood they spent much of their formative ages, they would be behaving well. Thus, people never lack a seemingly justifiable excuse to avoid taking responsibility for their actions.
Reference
Kennedy, R. (n.d.). It’s not my fault.