Attention Step
What is the status of your loved ones when suddenly something happens to you? Are you going to leave them in a lurch? Or are you going to put what you have in your mind clear so that even when you are not there, they are, at least, comfortable?
Need Step
Your absence could be a very sudden and unfortunate thing for your near and dear ones. There are instances when people suddenly die leaving behind loved ones in utter despair. Not knowing what kind of insurance covers the person had and whether he had them all covered properly. On such occasions, the dependents do not even know or miss out on some of the sources of funds that would have made them live better. This is particularly important when the person is dead due to an accident or other such sudden causes. It is a question of whether you would leave your loved ones like that. An unplanned job is almost always half done. Then how can you have your death not planned for? Sometimes, there could also be a case where there is more than one claimant to the assets had a person. In such cases, there could even be problems between your loved ones, because of you. Do you think you should be a source of discontent among them? It is certainly important that the person when he dies ensures that everything is smooth after his death.
Satisfaction Step
Unless the entire family, both near and the farther ones are taken into account and you have drawn the plan for your closing up properly, you will leave them to a struggle. This is the case when you are rich. What about when you are the breadwinner of the family? The family expects you to produce their daily bread. Maybe your kid is in school. Do you not think that your kid should be adequately supported and there is no confusion on this count? That is the reason, why lawyers always insist that there should be a final wish that you always leave behind. A will! A will that will take care of your kids and your family the way you want them to be taken care of.
Visualization Step
Imagine what the situation will be when you are not present in the family. This is not a self-pitying exercise! You need to visualize the situation and then foresee what are the things that could go wrong? The better your visualization and your solutions to the problems that you have envisaged, the better is the peace that reigns in your home after you pass away. Death is not something special; that comes only to you! No, death is common to everyone and we all need to face it on one day or the other. There is no need to feel melancholy about it. It is the only sure thing in life; like the sun that rises. Then why in the world are we not planning for it. There is but one major difference. Whereas the sun rises every day in the morning, death does not have time to strike. It strikes at the most unexpected time! Therefore, you will have to be prepared best for the worst. Do you not think so?
Action Step
How would you do that? The action is simple. Approach a close and confident lawyer who will help you frame your thoughts into a legally tenable final wish. The words that you write should be legally tenable. Simply because you just cannot foresee all that could go wrong in the world. And it is better to safeguard your loved ones when something does go wrong. Of course, you need to think widely and completely and take into account all possible combinations to ensure that you have the right kind of final wish. The one that you would really love to do and then put them all down to the paper with the help of your lawyer or with the help of his instructions; this should take care of your final wish!
References
Adams. 2007. Persuasive Speech Outline. Web.