Introduction
When I was young my parents were ever present and provided for both me and my sister all the possible necessities including toys. Sometimes the guardians could demand and control what we were doing. In most cases, my mother used to share with us what is expected from each one of us. Before undertaking any action, my parents had the tendency of communicating the issue to enable us to comprehend it accordingly and ask for our opinion. The approaches significantly influenced my overall behavior and how I perceive the world. By evaluating the various parenting styles, my parents utilized the authoritative technique to enhance our development. Based on the experience I had with my guardians, the authoritative parenting approach is effective because it enhances child competence, self-control, and confidence which are useful in developing positive child behavior.
Personal Experience
During my childhood, we were only two children in the family and both my parents gave us much attention. In most cases, my mother would explain in detail critical issues that we were not supposed to engage in. She used to warn us earlier to ensure no one is unaware of the situation. The parents consistently engaged in communication whereby we were asked what we want or how they should treat both of us. On rare occasions would my parent decide without briefing me and my sister about the changes made. My parents gave us autonomy which proved essential in building my confidence in school. It became easier for me to assess various situations and make a decision without restriction from the guardians. I felt worthy in the family and the aspect improved my psychological development since I had no worries about my potential. Furthermore, my parents showed much love and care to the extent that I received most of the items including the toys and clothes I wanted.
Authoritative Parenting Style
Based on the above experience, I believe the authoritative parenting style is the most effective approach to raising young ones. The method allows parents to control and love their children effectively (Lavrič & Naterer, 2020). When children are nurtured in an environment where there is an opportunity to explore their interests, they will develop self-worth. In addition, having open communication with toddlers improves their ability to be honest in any situation (Kail & Cavana, 2018). In other words, such young ones tend not to fear experiencing their feeling with their parents.
Significance of Authoritative Parenting Style
Furthermore, an authoritative parenting style promotes competence and commitment among children. The parents usually set standards and expectations for the young ones. For instance, my parent would promise to buy new cloth or toys if we performed well in school. The approach made me remain persistent and determined throughout my schooling years. This aspect significantly influenced my behavior and it became natural for me to complete tasks even without being monitored or promised any reward. Basically, the parenting style enhanced moral reasoning, self-control, and even child competency.
Conclusion
The overall growth and development of children depend on the parenting style applied by the parents. The authoritative approach allows young ones to have self-confidence following the autonomy provided by the caregivers. Furthermore, following the open communication, method enhances the children’s to share their thoughts effectively. Based on the system, I managed to perform effectively in school since my parents expected me to meet in order to receive whatever I wanted. To positively impact the development of children, the caregivers should use parenting technique that encompasses some aspect of control as well as warmth to make the young ones experience both facets of life.
References
Kail, V. R., & Cavana, C. J. (2018). Human development: A life-span view (8th Edition). Cengage Learning
Lavrič, M., & Naterer, A. (2020). The power of authoritative parenting: A cross-national study of effects of exposure to different parenting styles on life satisfaction. Children and Youth Services Review, 116. Web.