Negotiations are an ever-present part of everyday life and essential to many professions. They occur whenever people try to achieve beneficial outcomes by talking to others. While this definition may make negotiating sound simple and straightforward, the opposite is often the case. Even a one-on-one negotiation between individuals sharing the same cultural background can run into many serious practical, ethical, and psychological complications. Cross-cultural negotiations involving multiple active parties pose still more significant challenges due to the introduction of increased complexity and cultural barriers. To successfully navigate those difficulties, professional negotiators rely not only on their strengths, such as character and social intelligence, but also on negotiation theory. By carefully analyzing available information, such as the participants and their goals, as well as any complicating psychological and cultural factors, a skilled negotiator can select an ideal approach for any negotiation. In this text, I will try to share my understanding of negotiation theory as it applies to your situation and offer insights based on my personal experience.
Preparing for Negotiations
As is the case with many other activities, preparation is the key to success in negotiations. An adequately prepared negotiator has a better chance of controlling the course of the proceedings and resisting pressures caused by interfering factors and actions of other negotiators. While it is impossible to be ready for everything, anticipating the complications that are likely to come up makes it easier to concentrate on creating solutions for unexpected problems.
Preparations should begin with establishing the essential characteristics of the negotiation. For example, is the negotiation supposed to resolve just one issue or several? How many parties are going to participate in the discussion? When two or more parties are involved, the number of issues and the complexity of the process are likely to increase accordingly. If negotiations are going to take place across cultural lines, additional factors such as cultural barriers and biases will need to be taken into consideration. Having assessed those aspects, it becomes possible to predict the problems that might arise.
Negotiation theory recognizes two main styles of negotiations: the distributive style and the integrative style. Whereas the former is competitive and focused on maximizing value for the party using it, the latter is collaborative and seeks mutually beneficial solutions for all parties involved. Dividing limited resources between parties that might not deal with each other again is a typical scenario for the distributive style. The integrative method is applied when more resources can be created and the parties are interested in cultivating long-term relationships. The distributive style is also referred to as value-claiming, while the integrative style is often called value-creating. In practice, those who use the latter approach usually engage in both value creation and value claiming, as the parties are still interested in securing specific benefits for themselves. However, an integrative strategy requires a more balanced approach to claiming value and forfeits the more aggressive distributive methods. The chosen style will shape both the preparations carried out beforehand and tactics followed during the negotiation.
Your situation, a multi-issue multi-party integrative negotiation across cultural lines, is particularly complex, but it can be simplified and managed effectively with proper analysis. The next step in preparation is to identify the interested parties and their interests, along with how those interests interface with the issues discussed. It is vital to remember that important actors in negotiation include more than just the people at the table. Constituents, superiors, and clients are interested parties “behind the table” that seldom get directly involved in the negotiations process but can implement or block the decisions reached. The wider industry, media, and family members are entirely outside of the negotiation, but their opinions and interests can affect it as well. Identifying the personal and organizational relationships between actors is necessary to gauge the influence they may exercise on the negotiation.
Negotiation theory offers several concepts that can help assess the relative power and likely actions of participants. Each party has an aspiration point or the best realistically attainable outcome of the negotiation. The reservation point is the most substantial concession they are willing to make. Taken together, the reservation points of all parties define the boundaries of the zone of possible agreement (ZOPA) in a negotiation. The best alternative to a negotiated agreement (BATNA) denotes the most advantageous course of action that they can pursue if the talks fail. All other things being equal, parties with good BATNAs will have more power than parties whose best alternatives are inferior. Any gains from bargaining during the negotiation are compared to the BATNA and referred to as the bargaining surplus. Those concepts can be applied to claims on quantifiable resources or attempts to raise status or build relationships with other parties. Defining the negotiator’s aspirations, reservations, and BATNAs, and estimating as far as possible those of the other interested parties, is a crucial part of preparing for negotiations.
Multi-party negotiations make it necessary to plot out possible coalitions to achieve desirable outcomes. The negotiator needs to figure out whose support is required to attain their goal. Some parties at the table may seem like natural allies, while others are likely blockers or neutrals that can be convinced. Understanding their motives and how to engage them is vital for creating an effective coalition. Since coalitions are seldom free from internal tensions, they require a sufficient basis, such as substantial common interests, to sustain them. A stable core coalition makes it possible to integrate new members and ensure a desirable outcome effectively.
Special care must be taken to review the issues on the table, keeping in mind the goals and interests of all participants. Since an integrative negotiation focuses on creating value, it would help to identify further issues that can be added to the agenda, and that might offer fruitful opportunities for cooperation between interested parties. The negotiator should also decide what items they and their allies can afford to compromise on to gain a better overall result through trade-offs. This deliberation would yield both a useful set of tools for the negotiation and a clear list of priorities that would inform tactics.
In cross-cultural negotiations, it is particularly important to watch out for possible cultural misunderstandings. The negotiator should research the cultural backgrounds of all participants in advance to avoid gaffes. Something that is considered polite or acceptable in one culture might be a severe breach of etiquette in another. Cultural barriers can go much deeper as well since cultures can also have very different customary approaches to hierarchies, communications, and relationships. If not accounted for, such differences can mislead even an experienced negotiator, both before and during negotiations.
Carrying Out Negotiations
Before negotiations commence, it may become necessary to put in additional effort to bring all of the parties whose participation is required to resolve the issues to the table. With appropriate use of strategic moves, even those who are reluctant to negotiate can be persuaded to do so. Making the benefits of cooperation and the downsides of the status quo visible is often the optimal course of action. Depending on the situation, the negotiator can augment it by appealing to emotion, establishing their credibility, and enlisting the support of other interested parties. By offering an unexpected angle, even a reluctant negotiator can be turned into a useful partner.
After ensuring that negotiations take place, the next concern is to make sure that they are integrative. Even when all parties agree to cooperate, there are multiple sources of tensions that need to be resolved. I have sometimes struggled with the use of aggressive, distributive negotiating tactics by other participants. Such challenges should be addressed immediately, both to improve the negotiator’s position and to demonstrate the integrative nature of the process. Identifying those tactics directly or deflecting them with alternative suggestions would allow the negotiator to gain control over the conversation. I have also encounter passive behavior that may speak to a lack of trust. That is also counterproductive; for integrative negotiations to succeed, trust must be fostered, and relevant information needs to be shared by all sides, even if it weakens their bargaining positions. By demonstrating empathy and trust and offering concessions from a position of power, reluctant participants can be drawn into the discussion, and viable angles of cooperation can be identified.
The integrative style calls for principled negotiations, which means not only adhering to basic rules of ethics such as honesty but also systematically putting the parties’ broader interests over specific issues and their relationships over immediate gains. Agreements should be acceptable and fair to all sides, practically and politically sustainable and implementable. One way of cultivating the trust necessary for success under this framework is to offer contingent contracts, in which parties agree to carry out certain actions only when specific conditions are met. Another useful tool is the post-settlement settlement, where the issues are revisited after an initial agreement has been secured. It can help identify other possible benefits after the psychological tensions have been defused by altering the participants’ BATNAs to the original settlement.
A host of unconscious factors can make all parties at the table act less rationally, such as ethnic, gender, and professional stereotypes, emotional triggers, and cognitive biases. Confronting stereotypes directly during negotiations may not always be viable. Still, the negotiator should be mindful of perceiving and being perceived through a stereotypical lens and can try to adjust them through positive cues. Emotional triggers can be defused by acknowledging them directly and staying focused on the principles of negotiation. Cognitive biases can include the sunk-cost fallacy (refusing to cut losses), the availability heuristic (privileging available information), confirming evidence bias (seeking to confirm hypotheses), and biases created by initial framing of negotiations. Anchoring is an example of the latter, in which the initial proposal frames subsequent expectations, making subsequent negotiations revolve around it. Such biases can be controlled by being aware of them and focusing on previously established targets and priorities rather than immediate impulses. If there is an opportunity, it can be wise to consult with extraneous advisors who are under less pressure about possible errors in negotiations.
To sum up, negotiations can pose many obstacles, but they can be dealt with by acknowledging influencing factors, focusing on principles and priorities, and carrying out the necessary preparations. The goal of a negotiation is not a quick agreement, but one that is viable and beneficial. When using the integrative style, it is even more important to emphasize long-term interests and relationships over short-term gains. With the appropriate strategies and tactics, it is possible to efficiently carry out complex negotiations and obtain lasting and mutually beneficial results.