Introduction
Psychology and Christianity are disciplines that tend to explain anthropoid tendencies. Some experts in the two subject matters hold the view that these study fields are independent. This perspective has created two conflicting theories within itself. Some people regard religion as an enemy to the study of the psyche while others consider psychology as an adversary to Christianity. Regardless of the opinion one has, the most important thing is always to learn from the rival’s standpoint. Discovering the opponent’s stances helps determine common grounds for working relationships, and this creates harmony.
Lessons That Can Be Learnt from Secular Combatants
Sometimes it calls for great self-control when someone who is opposed to my worldview confronts an issue about my belief. However, it enhances a deep understanding of the ideas one is opposed to. In essence, this broadens my knowledge base as I continue to learn and helps in gain a deep insight into human behavior. In the Bible, King Solomon describes a wise man as, listening and aspiring to learn (King James Bible, 1769/2017, Proverbs 1:5). Therefore, learning widens the perspective of one’s worldview through appreciating other divergent views.
Moreover, I can learn from the Secular combatants how to defend the opinion I hold, and this can extend to values as well. The principles of Christianity teach good moral behavior, and inclination to Christian beliefs also serves to create harmonious living. In defense of my Christian values, I need to apply scriptural teachings. Biblically, in the beginning, there existed a word that was with God and the Word was God Himself (King James Bible, 1769/2017, John 1:1). Notably, defending our positions must be based on the Christian value of boldness.
Additionally, listening to opposing views reaffirms my commitment to God’s word and also strengthens my faith. I have encountered questions as to why God permits His people such as Job in the Old Testament to suffer. To avoid doubting God whom I believe in, I do answer, “to mere men it is impossible, but with God everything is possible” (King James Bible, 1769/2017, Matthew 19:26). Essentially, my point to those who hold a different view as mine in Christianity is to have a better understanding of God and establish their relationship with Him.
I can also learn to respect others’ opinions however much I may disagree with them and appreciate that we have different capabilities. The acknowledgment of humans’ innate differences enables me to live with each other peacefully. Entwistle (2015) asserts that conflicts escalate because the adversaries in a disagreement tend to engage in a series of exculpations, and all the parties involved become convinced that the other party may have ignited the conflict. Accordingly, disrespecting our adversaries’ opinions and their beliefs can presumably be a ground for conflicts to thrive.
In conclusion, I agree that I can learn from those who do not share the same beliefs as I do. In reality, this enables me to increase my knowledge scope of the world. The zeal with which some people support their beliefs is among the best that I can learn as I will be able to defend a particular course that I choose to champion. Besides, the challenging questions and puzzles also sharpen my understanding of God better and strengthen my salvation. On reflection, I can learn to understand and respect others’ views, as this fosters peaceful coexistence in society.
References
Entwistle, D. (2015). Integrative approaches to psychology and Christianity: An introduction to worldview issues, philosophical foundations, and models of integration (3rd ed.). Wipf and Stock Publishers.
King James Bible. (2017). Cambridge University Press.