Human sexuality refers to the way human beings experience their erotic and how they express themselves sexually or as sexual beings. It has biological and sociological aspects. The biological aspects involve reproductive mechanisms and the basic drive of sexual intercourse as well as sexual contact of whatever nature. Sexuality has the emotional and physical aspects which are expressed through feelings manifested physically or through psychological sexual behavior.
Human beings are sensual beings who have a need for the natural expression of their affections with others. However, there are some who are afraid of opening themselves up to other human beings and thus do not share their sensuality with anybody. This may lead them to result in other ways to express their sexual needs. Generally, human beings express their sexuality with other individuals or result to objects to express their sexual desires. This has led to the manufacturing of sex toys or objects also called adult toys. Many people use these toys with their sexual partners or on their own. A visit to a sex toy revealed different types of sex toys. The toys are made for both males and females.
The male toys included a toy called the fleshlight that is sculptured in the shape of a female vagina and it could be mistaken for the real organ because of its color actually this could be called a fake vagina. Next, there were penis extensions that are shaped like a penis and are worn to make the penis look bigger. There were cock rings that look like rings and are worn on the penis to enhance the size or just for sexual attraction. Condoms came in all types and sizes. Some even have flavors and the customers can choose their favorite flavors and scents.
The female toys came in many varieties there are the vibrators that are shaped like male penises. They are also toys for the nipples e.g. the tit chain clamps. The bondage restraints come in many forms. There are handcuffs, ropes, chains, and others that are used to restrain a partner during the sexual activity
It was very interesting to see how human beings strive to satisfy their sexual desires. There are all kinds of sex toys made to enhance sex. The store had toys in season and even toys for the future. All the toys promised to do a good job for the customer. Each new toy in the market promised an enhanced performance. What shocked me were the bondage restraints. How can anyone have sex when all chained up actually when in bondage? I thought about what would happen in case of a fire, or if the couples fought while having sex and the tied partner is left alone who would untie them. An amateur gets stuck in the complicated restraints. I thought it would be embarrassing to have someone come around to untie you.
The toys actually look like the male and female sex organs. Perhaps they are made in sizes that human beings think are ideal. The penis enhancers were particularly interesting to see as they came in all sizes and shapes and this made me think that a good number of men are insecure about their penis sizes. Could it be the women who complain about the size and push the men to acquire these sex toys?
The entire visit to the sex toy was an eye-opener to the length that a human being will go to fulfill the sexual needs. It made me realize there is more to sex than meets the eye. There are a lot of things that one can do to increase their sexual experience by doing things out of the ordinary for example incorporating a sex toy.
Sex toys are said to have benefits. They take fun and sexual activities to the next level especially when used by partners. This is said to improve partners’ communication because they have to talk about the toys before they incorporate them in their sex life. They make sex more exciting because the partners break from doing the same thing over and over. Thus their sex lives are spiced up.
People who are bold to use sex toys are said to be the kind who know what they want sexually. They are not shy about going an extra mile to achieve sexual satisfaction. Some would say that this is respectable in a social circle. The tools can be used in any way that a person likes and this gives then freedom to express what they feel.
The toys can be used with or without a partner. Therefore for the people without partners to express their affections they can use the sex toys. Others say the toys are good because in case of girls or women they cannot end up becoming pregnant and this enables them to enjoy the sexual activity without the worries of unwanted pregnancies.
Condoms protect one against sexually transmitted diseases and unwanted pregnancies if used correctly. They can also be used with some sex toys and this reduces the chances of diseases being transmitted through the toys that are shared.
Sex toys can also ruin relationships if people derive more pleasure from them than from their partners. Some people become addicted to them and they fail to achieve sexual satisfaction in their absentia. However this should not deter anyone seeking a sexual adventure. Sex toys can be used to add spice to one’s sex life.