When God created this world, he sent Adam on this Earth and to take away his Loneliness, he sent Eve to give him happiness and care, the one to talk and to share feelings with which we name as “Love”. Love is a feeling which has yet not been discovered how it was shaped. It is experienced by all in life at least one time or more. It has been associated with the living beings from the beginning the world was created.
Love can be described in different ways for different relations and person and is interpreted differently by many people. It can be with a person, animal or a non-living as well. Love for a person is different from that with being in love with your pet or your very old pen, your personal dairy etc. It is a feeling of being possessive and caring towards that person or thing you love and want to have it in your life forever.
Let us take an example of having the feeling of Love with a person, for instance when we meet someone and spend some time. After few meetings if we find that person compatible to us and we like to talk to this person, we miss the presence of this person in parties or when we go out with our friends, we want to know more about them and develop an emotional connection in between. We want to know their likes and dislike, hobbies, their thought about being you around them and much more. When we are with this person we like to be completely involved in their thoughts and words and we are inquisitive to know what this person is feeling about us at that point. A few more meetings with a healthy conversation urge your heart to develop a feeling of care, happiness and possessiveness towards this person which we name as “LOVE”.
Now the question arise that why we have this feeling and why we like this person so much. How this embryo of Love begins and flows softly into each others heart. We then discuss this with each other and seek for an answer. We share views and concepts to satisfy that the feeling is really there and true. Once we are fully convinced that this person also have the same feeling for us we then want to disclose the reality and break the ice.
We have read and heard many Love Stories and have been also influenced by them. Love is that precious gift that one can ever have in life. Being in Love creates not only a feeling of care and possessiveness but it also evokes a feeling of humanity towards the society. True love gives strength to a person in all walks of life. Just a glimpse steals our heart and seems to communicate silently just like falling leaves and you develop a feeling of care and pain even if this person is stable but we cry for him and remains attracted forever then this is true love.
Love can be found in any culture and religion is boundless to any region. It is a feeling of tender, affection, commitment, attachment and joy. Love can be expressed for many things like for example Love for nature, love for fame and power, love for soul, love for money etcetera. But the most beautiful face of love is love for a human or say a person very close to your heart.
Love is free form envy and jealousy. It is pure as a running stream and beautiful like a blossom. It enriches our life with moods and glory leaving an everlasting effect on our mind. Sexual attraction also plays an important role to establish a new bond however, it does not stand prior in a relationship as love can be expressed passionate without sexual bonding.
Marriage is a relation that gives a new phase to ones love. It assures the true essence of commitment and sincerity. Once we are bound in a relation ship and make it stronger we then move to the next phase. Usually love is developed between opposite gender and therefore it also develops more close feelings by giving birth to offspring’s and make the relation more strong.
Summarizing the above we can say that love usually starts with friendship, develops emotions and attraction, further enhanced by bounding it into a true relationship and commitment and reshaping it by passing through different phases in life. With the passage of time if the feeling of care, pain, affection, passion and attraction remains there then we can that true love persist as it gradually develops connection with each other souls and mind.
Love has the Power to change frowns into smiles and sorrows into happiness and joy. It frees our mind from stress and difficulties. Love provides the pleasure behold. I would end this with few words that if we love someone we should love them unconditionally because when there are conditions the true meaning of love vanishes and the connection between two people becomes feeble and unbound.