The connection between money and happiness is an eternal issue which has raised enormous discussions and debates. Through the years people have tried to find out and to prove if money buys or not happiness. This issue became one of the most important issues in a world where the money was gaining more and more power day by day. The term of materialism became very popular among people and gaining money turned into an essential challenge. People become seeking money desperately. All the occurrences through years lead us to think that money really brings happiness. This is only what can we see from the first view because the reality may be really different. The question about money and happiness is not so easy to be answered and there has never been a unique universal answer about it.
It is possible to give the right to the ones who think that money can buy happiness. It is proved that people want to take revenues from their activities as more possible. The economists explain that this thought leads only to a logical conclusion. This conclusion is that the more money you have, the happier you must be. This conclusion is not accepted by psychologists who think that wealth brings the happiness only in the moment when it helps the people to pass the poverty but it can do much after that phase. Another argument about this statement is that the growth through the years, especially after the World War II, of the gross domestic products in many states has not always provided happiness to its citizens. Surveys conduced in United States, Japan and Western Europe show clearly that the people who live in these states are not happy although they are supposed to have more money that they had before the war.
The best things in life are a good health, a loving family and peace of mind. Many people may have a large house with all the commodities, but they may lack love and harmony within it. Many others may be poor but may have harmony in their homes which makes them see the life more beautiful than it is.
Another think very interested to be asked is that why money does not bring happiness. People’s happiness is directly connected with their health, their success in marriage and of course with the well-being of their children. The happiness consists in elements like that. It does not come from nothing. If we have money but we do not have all that, it is very likely for us to be unhappy.
Thinking about earning money people forgets doing other activities from which they acquire pleasure. They are likely to spend more time working and as a result they do not pay attention to other things very important in life. They forget thinking about love and affection. A greater income is the only think that concerns them. People who think like use to spend a lot of time in passive leisure such as TV or simply relax meanwhile they forget active leisure such as exercise. If one’s life becomes only work, relax and TV it is logical that this person is unlikely to be happy.
On my opinion the happiness does not have a certain formula. It depends only on what is important to you. I would be very happy to have emotional and social wealth. For me it is important to be healthy, to have a loving family, to have “real” friends and a successful career. All that does not necessary come from money.