Over the years, technologies have played a great part in human life. So many things have been transformed from what they used to be in the past. Internet is one of the tools that has gained popularity. A lot of things and information can be accessed through the internet. By just a click of the button, People are in a position to understand what is going on in the world as well as saving time when one needs to learn about certain issues.
Many things have taken new direction in the current generation of the world. In the new era of internet usage and technology advancement, sex life and dating style have changed drastically. Before its invention, people used to use letters to date among other methods for example, literally going to meet ones lover face to face. Currently most of the things that were done manually are done on the net. One of such issues is how dating have taken a new toll by having most young and aged people use internet to do so. As opposed to yester years, internet has brought much change on how some people are dating. Internet has made it easier for lovers to date and exchange their feelings online. It is instant way of expressing the feeling for example by use of chat and emails. One can easily get a lover in different country/ location regardless of how many miles they might be apart. Internet has also made it possible for people to be specific of their perfect match which is not difficult to find through internet. The technological advancement of internet has made cyber sex to be on the rise. Through it, people are finding lovers online and exchanging their feelings using the same media. The information they exchange is so explicit to an extent of having sex online despite the many miles they are away from each other. Many people are watching porn clips and videos that are available online. These have made it possible for even very young children to access it which is making them to have ideas of sex at a tender age. Since human brains can synthesize what they see, the porn materials are making even virgins to know how sex is done as well as how to employ different sex styles. Technology can be good or bad depending on how it is used. The changes that are experienced in the field of online dating and online sex are having negative repercussions to the society. When pornography is on the rise, most people including the young children might want to practice it, thereby starting sexual life at an early age. When this happens, the young children might get exposed to early pregnancies and more prone to sexually transmitted diseases.
Cyber sex is equivalent to cheating and those who are practicing it might end up having sexual problems in future. It is difficult to tell whether your lover does not have other lovers. Also some lovers may never meet in their life one on one. The best they can do is to exchange their feeling where some of them might be flirting and using internet to see how people from different cultures or countries behave. It is for this reasons that I think cyber sex can amount to cheating and also making people waste a lot of valuable time doing things they can not quantify. The practice of cyber sex is unethical. People are turning out to fantasies rather than being realists. These habits have even spread to married couples leading to conflict in marriage and failure of satisfying one another sexually. Since the internet content can be accessed by any one, the children will get spoilt at an early age, whereas the mature people might spend more time having cyber sex. This will affect their social life and get limited in developing some of social and interactive skills.