According to Erikson’s definition of psychosocial development, adolescents pass through four domains of identity formation, such as faith, work, gender, and politics. My parents were probably the key persons who contributed to my faith commitment during my teenage years. Looking back, I understand that they always tried to recognize my needs and battles by putting themselves in my place. I remember many conversations that helped me to understand who I am and how I am connected with God. My parents respected my privacy and opinion, avoiding any forceful behaviors. As suggested by Stuart (2008), my parents reinforced my spiritual identity through their own examples and by practicing self-discovery. Nevertheless, our family had certain rules and rituals to be followed, such as reading and discussing of various verses, visiting the church, and considering faith principles in daily life. I agree with Smith and Denton (2005) who state that faith commitment helps teenagers to overcome social challenges since they feel that they are loved by God.
In terms of Marcia’s theory of identity development, the majority of adolescents reach a stable identity formation, but there can be various obstacles. As for my experience, I can note my identity foreclosure status, when I just adopted Christian views without considering any options. It was the beginning of my adolescence, which was replaced by a moratorium and related exploration of other cultures and religions. As a result, I made a commitment and took the responsibility for my decisions, which was a long process. Undoubtedly, my faith was helpful in the process of my identity formation in other areas as well, and it still guides me in such questions as social challenges, politics, gender issues, and so on.
References
Smith, C. & Denton, M. L. (2005). Soul searching: The religious and spiritual lives of American teenagers, Oxford Press.
Stuart, T. (2008). Six ways to build your teen’s identity.Focus on the family. Web.