Introduction
Throughout the history of humanity, people have tried to find relationships with each other for the common good. Today, people find themselves lovers and like-minded people who will support them and treat them with understanding. However, there are times when a long relationship ends due to betrayal or simply a loss of interest. Is it possible to consider a relationship that ended real? I faced such a situation and would like to tell you about my experience and experiences. I believe that this topic will always be relevant since the relationship between people will be built throughout the entire existence of humankind.
Main body
I was faced with a situation where a person who was dear to me and with whom I spent a long period of my life abruptly left me. I could not understand what the problem was for a long time, but then I managed to find out that they had found a replacement for me. After I found out, I had problems understanding what is generally happening in the world and what people are guided by when they perform such actions.
I concluded that many things in our world are due to banal benefits. People are comfortable with each other, which means it is beneficial for them to be together. This is not the kind of benefit that appears when a person buys a product at a discount; this is something at the level of instincts and subconsciousness. As soon as the relationship in terms of benefits is lost, people break up and try to find similar past relationships, however, taking into account the mistakes passed, and so on, until they find the most comfortable person for themselves.
When people start to be together, meet, and build relationships, they most often promise each other not to disperse and to be close to the end. When they disperse, all these words are forgotten under the pretext that nothing can be returned. Does this mean that people are honest with each other? I faced the same situation when a person promised me to be always there, but time passed, and I heard the phrase that nothing can be returned. In my opinion, honesty and truth are very subjective things that should be studied and learned for a long time. This experience tells me that it is better not to promise what may not be possible or that you do not fully control the outcome. Thus, it will not injure a person because they will believe you not because of words but because of your presence nearby.
Many people are faced with similar situations because, in principle, they are not much different; one side betrays the other, and people diverge. However, each person reacts in their own way to what happened and behaves differently after that. I believe that my thoughts on the occasion of what happened quite clearly convey the real world of people today, when the benefit, unfortunately, comes to the fore, and honesty goes to the second.
Summary
Summing up, I would like to tell my readers that you should be more careful in building relationships with people because it is not a fact that you will always be there. Unfortunately, our world is rather cruel, and there are many people who are looking for their environment only for personal gain, and as soon as this passes, they are looking for others. It is necessary to treat everything with caution since, unfortunately, it is no longer possible to trust everything and everyone.